"Your parents ruin the first half of your life"
"and your children ruin the second half"
There are nannies and awesome private middle class schools in Switzerland. Parents can always be happy about how their child is cool and independent and BETTER THEN OTHER MOMMY BOYS while being happy together within the aura of awesomeness that surrounds them.
When I was in high-school I was obsessed over the math, was the best math student in the school and my dream was to became professional mathematician.