there is no "gay gene", that's alphabet brigade cope. it's not STRICTLY a choice but it's almost always either the result of childhood sexual trauma, co-morbid with other mental illnesses, or cope for being a low quality male who gets terminally out-competed in the sexual marketplace. i say this not from a place of hate but as a home o' sexual who's been around and dated and interacted with many other home o' sexuals. it's not something that should be encouraged and celebrated, it's something that just kinda IS, like ABDL-fags. not illegal, not a capital offense, just vaguely weird.